It's our anniversary

 Bob and me in 1987

Today is Bob's and my 21st wedding anniversary.  I think we're realizing lately what we meant when we said we'd like to grow old together.  It's not what we envisioned, of course, but I like the reality better, because reality has that unpredictable quality that comes with dealing with another real person, not your imagination of what that person should be like.  

I've learned to laugh a lot more since I've known Bob.  I've learned to say what I mean.  I've learned to wait wisely and not panic over little things.  I've even learned to throw a frisbee.  But that doesn't really cover twenty-one years of marriage, does it?  

Tonight we'll be be going to one of our favorite restaurants, Spiga.  

Bob and me this summer.