Wednesday, September 29, 2010

The little big picture

CZ, age three, very shortly after we moved to New York

I needed some perspective yesterday, so I got out my little journal of things CZ said when she was little. I know that all children say cute things when they are small, and I have my favorite things that other children have said, too. But I only have permission to post ones that CZ has said. (Yes, she got to edit the list.) I do think they show her particular personality and make me appreciate her. These are through about age six:

In the backyard: "That's toys-in-ivy. Want to get the toys out."

"Does the Holy Spirit have a stethoscope?"

"May I walk on water when I grow up?...Oh, I'll walk in water."

Saying her prayers after going to the Metropolitan Museum: "Thank you God for the paintings you made." "Well, " I explained, wanting her to understand the difference between God's creativity and man's, "Men made the paintings, and God gave them the creativity. She paused for a few minutes, folded her hands, and began again, "Thank you God for the frames. I know you made the frames!"

"I don't want this bagel anymore. It's starting to taste like puzzle pieces."

"On the holidays, Grandmommy cooks hollandaise!"

***

Under the desk, playing with the nativity scene, and narrating in a story-teller voice:

"Once there was a woman named Mary, and it was a wonderful sight..."
"Once there was Mary, Joseph, Jesus and sheep. And it was good, but their problem was the goat [donkey] couldn't fit in the barn..."
"Once upon a time, there was Mary, Joseph, Jesus, a sheep and a donkey. And it worked out really well and it was fine and alright, though Jesus just, just, crawled everywhere...to save Mary from crocodiles and stuff!"
"Once upon a time there was a barn..."

***

"Do stars have gravity?"

"I need to go to the doctor tomorrow and tell him I have hypochondria."

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Me, reading the Bible: "As far as the East is from the West, so far I will remove your sins from you."
CZ, looking very surprised: "You mean they're all the way over on the West Side?!!"

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Stretching her boots out in her stroller: "My boots are so yellow. They're as yellow as old cabs."

With her first 100-piece puzzle all laid out around her on the floor: "Is this a chapter puzzle?"

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Looking rather wistfully out the window towards the street, on a cloudy day. "Every part of the world is crowded today."

Looking out same window, on another day, with growing horror: "How did it get to be Monday? Is the whole city Monday?!"

***

"A month is a long time, but you can't see it. In here is a month, and out there is a month, but you can't see it. You can see through it, like air...Can you see microwaves? They're like that."

"What is dinner time + dinner time?...Way past my bedtime!"

"I'm a happy girl, 'cause I have a little fort, and the reason I'm in here so much is...I don't know how to get out!"

"Mommy, I like the way there can be TV on TV."

After we missed the express bus because there wasn't enough room for everyone to get on and the door closed on someone's backpack: "Mommy, it's okay. We didn't want that bus...It was just full of lawyers anyway."

Standing with me while we were waiting for the elevator: "Am I imagining this?"

From the bathtub: "Mommy, the water's running out of float-ness!"

To Bob, conspiratorially, while playing Frisbee in the park: "Okay, get ready! You never know where Mommy's going to throw it next!"

"You put a puzzle piece where you think it goes, not where you hope it goes. You hope it goes everywhere."

Me, looking absently at a take-out menu: "Your hot dog comes with two sides."
CZ, puzzled: "Everything has to have at least two sides, or it wouldn't be real."

"Lotsarella, please!"

and

At Grandmommy's house in rural Georgia, sleepily describing the sound of crickets in the woods: "They sound like millions of car horns blowing, far away."

***

Sometimes we just need to look at the big picture, don't we?

Friday, September 24, 2010

NY Times drawing series

This morning I ran across--who would have thought?--an excellent series in the NY Times on basic drawing skills. This series will come out each Friday for twelve weeks. Oh, I am so excited to see this, for my own sake! If you want to brush up on your own skills, have children who are interested in drawing, or just want a good curriculum for an art class (for any age, because few people practice these skills anymore), this series looks extremely promising. I majored in drawing and painting, yet I never got this level of basic instruction. (Honestly, I think I majored in irony and kitsch, which can be valuable in its own way, but that's another story.)

I'm also going to drop the links (two so far) in my shared items on the sidebar. Happy drawing!


Monday, September 20, 2010

Helix online

Helix, Christmas 2008

I confess a soft spot for this gift store in downtown Athens, Georgia. I'd like it even if my sister and brother-in-law weren't the owners, but it happens that they are. And now you can shop Helix online. (They have no idea I'm posting this, by the way. At least not yet.)

It's also fun that when my sister comes up to NYC twice a year to attend the Javitz retail show, I get in a visit with her and also get a preview of what's to come. One of the items we talked about when she came up last month was Clocky. I know my sister didn't invent Clocky, but I must say, it's got her sense of humor.

I'm quite fond of CZ's Charley Harper cards from Helix, too.

And the Lomography blog looks fun!

All in all, I think this store stacks up nicely against many of the artsy stores in Soho. Not that I'm biased or anything.

Saturday, September 11, 2010

Uccelli italiani

Eurasian Nuthatch (photo from Wikipedia Commons)

My other little ancillary post about Italy is on bird-watching. It was never a main activity during the trip, but I did take my binoculars, and I did keep my eyes open for birds while I was there. I did most of my bird watching from the gazebo of the rental house in Castelnuovo, during breakfast.

What I learned quickly is that Italian birds are very shy. Our house looked straight out into a stand of trees and bushes. Every morning I'd be waked at about 5 a.m. with a cataract of birdsong coming from these trees. There would still be plenty of singing going on when I got up an hour or two later (our hours varied, depending on whether there was a concert the night before), but I'd almost never see a single bird in these trees. Or if I did, it would dart into the underbrush before I could get a good look at it. American birds will usually let you look at them, at least for a few seconds.

Finally one morning I wised up and got up early. I went to an empty upstairs bedroom where I could peek out of the cracked shutters, and I had a little more success this way. It was very foggy most mornings, but I could at least see any birds that flew into the little fig tree right by the gazebo. This is how I saw a Eurasian Nuthatch, like the one in the photo above, and a couple of other birds.

About eight o'clock, while we were eating breakfast on the gazebo, the sun would burn through the fog and the swifts would start diving off the roof and into the valley, feeding on insects. They made a racket that is one of the characteristic sounds of European towns. Swifts, martins, and swallows circle every Tuscan town, especially in the morning and evening.

There was another sound I heard, all day long, everywhere I went. It was a very distinctive call, but I never could associate it with a particular bird. Every time I would identify a bird, I'd look to see if its call fit the description of what I was hearing, but it never did. I knew it must be a common bird, though, because I even heard it in Milan.

One I even asked Sr. Bertolani about it. He said, positively, that it was the canarini. I figured from what he was saying that he meant the European Serin, which is related to the canary and lives on the side of the hill where the house was. So that was the first Italian name for a bird that I learned. (Not that I've learned so many others!) But still, the song didn't fit the description for the Serin song in my bird book.

I never solved this mystery until we got back home. I finally e-mailed Cornell's ornithology department, through the Bird Guide site that's linked on my sidebar, and described the song. The person who answered my e-mail wasn't familiar with European birds, but she forwarded my question to someone else who was. And the verdict? The Common Chaffinch, probably the most common bird in all Europe! How could I have missed seeing the most common bird in Europe when I was there, with binoculars, and trying to keep my eyes open, for three weeks? It's beyond me, but there you go! I thought it was very nice of Cornell to go to the trouble to answer my question, though.

Here's my complete list. As usual, I haven't bothered to put it in strict taxonomic order:

Little Grebe
Great Spotted Woodpecker
Alpine Chough
Alpine Accentor
Common Blackbird
White Wagtail
Carrion Crow
Common House Martin
Barn Swallow
Common Swift
Great Tit
Blue Tit
Eurasian Nuthatch
European Serin
Blackcap
Italian Sparrow

and

Common Chaffinch!

Cucina italiana

Our home-made macchiato, with CZ's milk-froth (I'll try to get a better photo soon.) She's very fond of cinnamon.

It has taken me a month-and-a-half to blog a three-week trip! But I've got just a couple of small posts to write about little ancillary things having to do with Italy.

This first post is about little cooking items that I'm having fun using now that we're back home. With all the luggage restrictions these days, I didn't want to load up the suitcase with souvenirs, but I did buy a couple of small things for the kitchen, supplemented by a couple of larger things that I knew I could get at home:


I bought this moka pot at Bed, Bath and Beyond, not in Italy, but it's foundational, so it comes first. The Bialetti moka pot is almost a national symbol of Italy. Our tutor Paola gets almost teary-eyed when she talks about how the moka is now being supplanted by the home espresso machine. Nevertheless, our rental house had several of moka pots in different sizes. In Italy, you can even get cans of Illy coffee ground for them (and as you might expect, Illy is much cheaper there, too). We had moka pot coffee every morning in tiny espresso cups, and again after lunch.

Now that we're back home, I have my usual French press coffee early in the morning, but in the afternoon, CZ and I make espresso in the moka pot. We also bought a little hand-pumped milk frother to make macchiato. The glass was very thin and it broke after the first week, but CZ quickly figured out that the pump fit the French press carafe perfectly and now she makes it that way. We've been experimenting with different kinds of milk, but find even the same brands to be inconsistent. We've had the best luck so far with 1% Organic Valley.

A small milk/tea pot

When I drink my morning coffee around 6 a.m. at home, I like to have it while seated on the sofa next to the open living-room window. I do this because I like to be slightly cold when I drink my coffee, but our centrally-steam-heated building is usually too warm for that. I also like the window open because early morning is the quietest time of day in NYC and I like to sit and listen to the quiet. The only problem with my nice routine is that the breeze, combined with my habits of using a French press and of pouring half-and-half in my coffee, made it almost certain the coffee would be lukewarm by the time I got situated.

Our rental house had several small milk/tea pots. I quickly discovered that I could heat milk on the stove in the smallest one and enjoy very hot coffee. So I bought one of these nice small pots in Italy. The one in the photo above is about five inches high. I've just started using it this week, now that there's actually a breeze coming through the window in the morning. It works!


This next item is a mezzaluna, or half-moon. (It has nothing to do with coffee.) There was also one of these in our rental kitchen and I started using it daily. It's just a little curved knife with two handles, very handy for cutting ripe cantaloupe or getting a nice rocking motion going for fine-dicing herbs and onions. I didn't know what it was called until I mentioned to Sra. Bertolani that I used it every day. "Ah, la mezzaluna!" she explained, tracing the half-moon shape across the blade with her finger. So I bought one, for not very much, in the town's kitchenwares store. When I went to Bed, Bath and Beyond to get the moka pot, I also saw them there, too, but I like knowing that mine is from the town where I first learned about them.

And while I was at it, I bought a little icing syringe for cake decorating. I hadn't decorated cakes with icing in recent years (I used fruit instead) because I balked at all the preservatives in the storebought kind, but I hadn't seen a syringe here at home. This one looked easy to use, and it was lightweight. CZ tried it out yesterday while icing Bob's birthday cake. (By the way, she gets sort of giddy after eating a lot of icing.)

The cake reads, "Buon compleano, Roberto di [picture of a bicycle]. This is obviously an obscure joke. It stems from Bob's recent habit of signing all correspondence to friends and family with some imaginary Italian surname, most commonly Roberto di Bicicletta, or "Bob Bicycle." Enough said!

I also bought one large thing for the kitchen, but that was after we got back. A couple of weeks ago, the igniter in our aging oven went out--again. After four repairs in as many years, and living without the most convenient top burner for a year as well, I finally decided to get a new range. It's actually just an updated version of the old one, which I liked, but it has two things the old one didn't, a convection fan and a handy middle burner that can be used either for a Dutch oven (because it's oblong) or to heat a specially-fitted griddle insert. The whole thing heats up much faster too, and is much more reliable temperature-wise. I admit it--I love having a new stove!

Last Saturday Bob went on a seventy-plus mile bike ride, so we celebrated with brunch. CZ whipped up some ricotta-nutmeg pancakes and we put them on the griddle, along with bacon and eggs. Here she is experimenting with pancake shapes:


I'm glad it's cool enough to exercise more now, because with all these cooking supplies, it looks like we'll need it!

Thursday, September 2, 2010

Once again, we wind up in Milan

Our hotel room

After almost three weeks of traveling, we had reached that point of any vacation in which we were very tired and had run out of clean laundry. And once again, as in 2003, we were ending our trip in Milan. The last city in a trip usually gets the short shrift, and knowing this, we tried to remain alert. We wanted to appreciate Milan.

We had had such nice hosts all through our trip that at first we felt a little at odds in this big, anonymous city. But being New Yorkers, we figured we could find our way around and entertain ourselves.

Because we were staying in the same hotel as on our previous trip, we already knew that we didn't want to have dinner that first night on the nearby Via Dante. We felt it was the Milanese equivalent of Times Square. So we asked the hotel clerk (a very kind girl whom we also remembered from our previous trip) where we should go. Once we got to the area she recommended, we still felt that the selection of restaurants was a little tourist-y (they were the kind where the waiters stand outside and try to get you to come in), but we finally selected one and found that the food was good, if expensive. We sat outdoors.

We had, unknowingly, chosen a restaurant on the street where the fortune tellers hang out. We had barely begun our meal when the first one set up her table. She was wearing a red dress, a red sequined shawl, a lot of make-up, and she had dyed-blonde hair. As groups of young people walked by, the women often dressed in shorts and heels, she would shout, "Ciao, ragazzi!" to get their attention. But the only two groups I saw stop at her table were both English-speaking, and the women were tall, pretty, young blondes. Can you guess what she told them?

There were also people walking their dogs, a toddler who wandered around the sidewalk near our table, and a man who kept trying to push a dozen roses on us. The rose-peddler was rather annoying, but on the whole, we enjoyed having some street life with our dinner. Bob got to use a new favorite get-rid-of-peddlers line that he had invented in Sarzana: "Parlo solo cinese." It usually gets a laugh (being so obviously false), and sometimes it gets rid of the peddler.

Towards the end of our meal, we realized it was getting dark, but from the wrong direction. The wind picked up, and we heard rumbling. But we were already halfway through dessert, so it didn't concern us.

Besides, we were very entertained by the fortune teller. She seemed to be hedging her bets against the storm, removing first one chair from her table, then another and another, and stacking them against the nearest store front. By this time she had been joined by several other fortune-tellers, none of whom were doing much business in this threatening weather. They sat at their tables like so many flies gathering, all up and down the street, candles sputtering in the wind. Bob wondered aloud whether she could predict whether it was actually going to rain. The next moment, a gust blew out all her candles.

We finished our meal and set off towards the nearby Brera Quarter (in the opposite direction from our hotel) with our map, hoping to see La Scala lit up in the dark. We made it as far as the Chiesa di S. Marco and were once again getting our bearings when the wind picked up suddenly and blew whirling dust in our faces. Lightning flashed, and it became very obvious that it really was going to pour. We spat out leaf bits, laughing, and started to beat it back to the hotel. We did stop briefly, though, under a bar awning where a crowd was watching the final game of the World Cup. Bob poked his head in and looked towards the screen. "Zero/zero!" someone yelled out. The question didn't even need asking. On the way back by our restaurant, there were even more fortune-tellers. I noticed one in a bright orange dress with a large, green satin hat. She almost glowed in the shop lights.

We had barely walked through the fortress-like doors to our hotel when we heard the storm break with a fury. But we were safely inside. We sat in our glass hotel room, watching the constant lightning outside and the end of the World Cup on the hotel-room TV: "E' finita! L'Espagna e' la campiona del mondo per la prima volta!"


The next day, CZ and I wandered around in the heat while Bob went to meetings. Lots of things were closed, because it was Monday, but we familiarized ourselves with the Parco Sempione, the Galleria Vittorio Emmanuele, and the Duomo.

CZ took the photos of the interior, the bronze relief, and the candles, above

Bob had been going to various meetings with potential Italian clients all along, but in Milan, this became more or less the primary purpose for the trip. After one of these meetings, he came back to the hotel with an interesting story: He had met a young woman from Castelnuovo di Garfagnana who was perfectly fluent in both Italian and English. And the reason she spoke English so well was that she had spent her first eight years in Scotland--she was one of the Scots-Italians.

This young woman, Tamara (pronounced Ta-MAH-ra), offered to meet us for dinner after work so she could show us an area of town she liked, and so we could trade impressions of Castelnuovo. We ended up walking to the Navigli section, a student area in the southern part of town that reminded me somewhat of Greenwich Village. It was also the section of town that contained a lot of old canals that the Renaissance Milanese had once used to transport goods to the nearest river. Leonardo da Vinci had a hand in designing them. Now they made a nice excuse for a row of restaurants down either side.

We didn't have a particular restaurant in mind, but all of them looked better than the one we'd eaten in the night before, so we were happy. We ended up in one that had unusual takes on all the traditional Italian dishes. Tamara explained what it was like to grow up in Castelnuovo from the age of eight until she went back to college in the U.K. Yes, it was nice and cozy--maybe a little too cozy when you're a young single. She liked Milan better, though she knew that many people didn't. Tamara also said her native Scottish accent could be a little misleading, because every now and then while she was in college, she wouldn't understand some word, and people, not realizing that Italian was her first language, would simply think she was a little dense! It was fun to be able to get in-depth impressions from someone who knew so much of Italy.

By the time we walked home at around ten p.m., the whole district was teeming with students. They sat around S. Lorenzo delle Colonne, talking, smoking, and performing music. Once again I had that slightly confused, dislocated feeling that I'd had several times before in Italy. During the day, it seemd that the churches were overrun by tourists (of which I was one) and looked upon as places revenue. At night, they were places where people hung out. How did the Italians feel about them as churches?

Bob on his way to a meeting

On the next and last day of our trip, Tuesday, CZ and I each picked a sight we wanted to see. We spent the morning in the Pinoteca della Brera, Milan's chief art museum. It was fun to see so many of the principal paintings from art history survey courses in person--Raphael's The Marriage of the Virgin, Mantegna's Dead Christ, Bellini's Madonna and Child, Piero della Francesca's Madonna and Child with Saints, and an enormous Veronese dinner scene with Mary anointing Jesus' feet. We sat for a long time just taking in all that was going on in that one painting.

In the afternoon, we went back to an archeological museum that we had visited in 2003. I was a little disappointed to find that CZ had no memory of it, but I think she actually enjoyed going there this time. She likes the idea that Italian cities have remains of their previous incarnations underneath, and that if you look closely you can puzzle out what's what. This particular museum is built over part of the late Roman city walls near the emperor Maximin's palace. One of the wall's towers had been incorporated into a church cloister, which was in turn bombed during WWII, and then partially turned into a museum with the church still extant next door. This church, S. Maurizio, wasn't even particularly famous, but it had very well-done frescoes. And out behind the museum we found an archeologist at work, digging in the yard of the cloister. And of course, every set of ruins has its cats, who have been here all along. Once again, we were witnessing the continual layering that is Italy!

Frescoes by Bernardino Luini in the Chiesa di S. Maurizio, next to the museum.

A Roman sculpture from Caesarea Maritima.

Top to bottom: Dripstones in the shapes of dogs, ruins of an imperial palace (a couple of blocks from the museum), and an archeological dig behind the museum